But as for you, speak the things which are proper for sound
doctrine: that the older men be sober, reverent, temperate, sound in faith, in
love, in patience; the older women
likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much
wine, teachers of good things— that they
admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet,
chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God
may not be blasphemed. – Titus 2.1-5
This
is such a precious section of scripture. Paul talks about the folks of people
in the church, men and women, young and old.
First
on the list is the older men. Quite the standard was set for them:
Be
sober
Be
reverent
Temperate
Sound
in love
Sound
in faith
Patient
The
role of old men in summary is to be a pattern of good works for others to see.
People must know by our lives that the word of God works and it works in the
long run. We need to have grown out of most of our silliness and impetuosity
and wavering. We may still get a little silly at times and things like that,
but our lives should be known for something more.
There
ought to be a soundness about us. We need to be well grounded love and faith so
that people know that they can depend on us. These are areas where we need to
be rock solid.
And
by now, as hard as it is, we should have learned a measure of patience. By now
our experience should have taught is to be willing to wait and watch God work.
That certainly doesn’t imply laziness. We do what we can do, but then we have
to wait on God. Decades of following Him should teach us how important that is.
Our
lives should be a pattern for others.